make yourself indispensable to others

The key to success is making yourself as useful as possible to others. You should make yourself so useful that you are indispensable to them. But how do you do that? How do you make yourself indispensable?

First of all we need to define what is meant by useful, since only by being useful can we become indispensable. Being useful means meeting people’s needs and desires. It is solving people’s problems. Consequently, there is actually just one rule to make yourself indispensable:

Of course, there are a lot of needs people can possibly have.In some circumstances, you may be most helpful in belonging, while in some other circumstances you may be most helpful in Learning. You should always be aware of where you can be most helpful.

1.Listen to your friends without interrupting nor being hurry.
2.Send them your warm greetings via e-cards.
3.Tell them how you miss them.
4.Send them special messages at their birthday
5.Comfort them in times of trouble.
6.Introduce them to your other friends to expand their networks.
7.Buy them gifts when you are traveling. Even small gifts matter.