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Tuesday, July 31, 2007

the day i shed my consecrated Habit for Heaven's sake!

the date was January 26, 2005. i was still in the middle of my 2005 visit to the Philippines, when i got the chance and an opportunity to contact my brods and sis in a Fraternity that i joined when i was in 2nd year college.
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i conferred with the adviser, the president and some Alumni if they could possibly back me up in my plan to go and visit the house inmates of the religious group in Naga City called THe MIssionaries of the Poor that houses numerous inmates who are mentally and physically handicapped, so i could give out some foodstuffs, clothings and footwear to the 500 of them.


its always a thought in my head that whenever i get the chance to be worthy of whatever i can do to alleviate the sufferings of my Kababayans, then by all means, i will have to carry it out...I was thankful to the group, to my brods and sis , that they gladly accepted my offer. so, on that sunny humid day, i shed my Long Black Habit, set aside my being a monk, and went with my brods and sis in plain clothes (denims and shirt) to purchase and load sacks of rice, flour, dry powdered milk, T-shirts, flip-flops (beach walk sandals), coffees, and other basic commodities on a truck for the 500 unfortunate adapted Bikolanos of the house of the Missionaries of the Poor.

with a truckload of stuffs from the market, we proceeded to our target: the house of the inmates of MOP.
Fr Charles, the head of the House gladly introduced himself to me as the one assigned by their Mother House in India to spearhead this house in naga city bikol to adapt and feed unfortunate bikolanos street urchins and stow aways who were abandoned due to their mental and physical dysfunctionalities. Fr Charles' congregation is inspired by the wisdom and ideals of Mother Theresa of Calcutta, hence the wearing of a bright white habit with blue sash around its waist(the novices and postulants simply wear their white habits without any sash while the Simply Professed brothers wear light-pink sash on their waists).


while the program was being presented, i couldn't help but to feel sorry for those inmates infront of me, seated side by side, unmindful of their surroundings, unassumingly quiet from the ongoings of the entertainment numbers that we were giving them. my heart melted with such sight of 'separation from the world' that these unfortunate ones were experiencing.





as we went on with the program, there was a part when the inmates had to line up to receive the flip-flops that we bought for them (mind you, they were in their barefeet all day-long), and the face towels that we got for their daily hygiene, and cups of instant noodles and drinks and cookies for their daily snacks...and i saw from their faces and actions that they were just innocently frantically happy and delighted as they took turns in receiving the 'little gifts' we got for them...

errrrr, this is not one of the inmates,( LOL ) but the president of the current members of our frat brod Joel N.-----, he was just too happy that he couldn't contain it in front of my lens ,( LOL ).

Fr Charles and his young disciples were moved as we presented to him the bags of groceries and sacks of rice and flour.

before we parted ways, a souvenir image with fr Charles and his energetic young followers in their sparkling white habits was just fitting and proper.

the moving moments with the House inmates ended with me having a sustained lump in my throat as i kept holding back my tears of pity and sadness for these people lest i could have created an 'unpleasant' scene that was not really appropriate for them to see...(i've always been so emotional on scenes like such.)

at the end of the day, my brods and sis, brought me to Pasacao Beach Resort for us to take a dip in the sea and unwind the memories of that great day!....

it's fantastic feeling to be of service to God thru His unfortunate ones, and afterwards enjoyed the reminiscense of it with friends and fraternal brothers and sisters over a couple bottles of San Miguel Beer Grande and a swim in the sea with my blue skimpy Speedo swimwear(reserved in my personal files and not for public viewing, remember that i have vowed to the High Heavens from that moment when i Professed my Solemn Monastic Vows, that i shall only be the object of humanity's edification and not of their seduction hah!..( LOL )........

15 comments:

Anonymous said...

kuya!

good day! okay okay... i have two feelings right now... first, i was touched by ur puspose helping the unfotunate individual... as u've known hndi na yan bago skn... dahil i used to spent one day or occassion sa mga unfortunate individuals... sa mga Reached Out Prog. nd yes, hanggang yakap at ngiti lng ang kaya kong ibigay nd some of the goods... to feel the comfort from me. kahit anong pigil ko sa sarili ko... i cant help to be emotional too... pro i just kept it in my heart... nd pagkatapos... iniiyak ko na lng yan... nd send a Prayer to Him.

Second... ur so funny ba kuya! sa last part ng entry mo... hmmm... nakakabitin.... bwahahahaha... im figuring out in my mind kung anong itsura mo dun sa private photo file na un....hahahaha for sure.. lumalabas ang pagka-Tisoy ni Kuya... dahil SMB Grande ang tinira e... talagang namumula ka cgro... waaaaa! tama ba tong sinusulat ko.. nagkakasala na ata ako... patawad! hihihhi

lam mo Kuya... buti nman nagagawa mo pa yang ganyn... as a Monk! ung bang parang u set a side the Monk in u-- kahit saglit lng... im happy for you Kuya!

see yah!

Anonymous said...

kuya ko!

this is the second part...bout sa comment mo sa latest post ko...

kuya nman e... feeling ko tuloy ganun na ako kagandahan nyan... sa papauri mo skn... SALAMAT!

talagang mababaliw cla skn d2... waaaa... pro isa lng nman ang ung taong baliw na baliw ako kuya... kilala mo na un dba? c PAPA... waaaaaa

kuya.. sumpaan ntn... we are BROD nd SIS in GOD... nd 'ope to meet you in person! as in tlga Kuya...

salamat sa comments mo... napipilitan akong magpaganda ngsarili at magpataba.. waaaa...

salamat sa papuri Kuya ko!

GOD BLESS!

forevermonk said...

@vera

ok, ok, let me clarify sis ko hahahaha--
may dalwa akong artista noon na pinaka paborito ko in terms sa hugis ng mukha at amo nito--at in terms of their body beautiful as in ang ganda talaga ng hugis ng katawan-na parang coca cola body (yung nasa regular sized bottles pa ang coke) sa ganda ng hugis... pero nga ang roles nila sa movies ay bold palagi- at yan ay walang iba kundi si PIA MORAN at VIVIAN VELEZ...if ever you have seen them in their youthful years..sympre gurangis na sila ngayun kaya wa na sila sa limelight at bold wagon...

sila sila, ang aking naiisip (ang kagandahan nila but not what they were portraying in movies huh!) habang inuulit ulit kong i play ang slideshow ng mga images mo.....yun yun sis ko hahahaha...

ay oo, tama ka sa iniisip mo--dahil sa ako ay pagud sa pagbubuhat ng mga sako na bigas at mga arena at kung ano ano pang binigay ko sa MOP ay nalasing ako agad after dalwang tagay sa basong punong puno ng grande--eh sympre dahil naka adapt na sa klima ng monasteryo ang skin ko sa mukha kaya namula ako na parang makopa at pati chest ko namula na parang nagka allergy ako-so nagpanic ang ibang mga brods ko sa takot at inakala na na allergic ako sa beer- so ang ginawa ko (as in talagang nakaplano na talaga na lalangoy ako sa dagat kahit hindi pa ako nalasing sa beer) ay lumusong na ako ng di oras sa dagat with nothing but my blue speedo--at mag isa akong nag enjoy sa lamig ng tubig samantalang yung mga brods ay nanginginig sa ginaw ( daw ) ng tubig alat hahahahaha--
ganun ang kwento...the rest is a history to tell--at sympre naku ayaw kong mang seduce noh, kaya hindi ko pwedeng i post dito ang mga iskandaloso kong pics na ang mga brods ang nagsalit salitang kumuha with my digital camera hahahahah....
ay oo sis ko, as monk, dapat maging versatile ako....kundi paano ko magagawang ma carry out ang aking evangelization sa humanity kong hindi ko kayang hubarin pansumandali ang aking abito at pansumandaling alisin sa akin ang pagiging monk ko?..its goin to be very hard to reach out to the ordinary of someone is on the clouds...kelangang bumaba ka para maabot mo ang kamay ng mga taong nangangailangan ng maka Kristiyanong tulong galing sau...

forevermonk said...

@vera

ngekkkkkkks, wag kang magpatabaaaaaa.......mawawala ang yung pagiging miss body beautiful...

kung sa Ms Universe contest ay meron Ms photogenic--sa Ms World naman ay merong Ms friendship, saiyo naman ay merong Ms body beautiful hahahaha... no kidding, tamang tama lang ang hugis at korte ng body mo sis, mahirap naman kung magpapataba ka--baka maiba ang hugis ng katawan mo dahil sa bilbil at pati na hugis ng mukha mong maamong parang santa ay maiba din hahahahaha--sayang ang kagandahan mo pag nangyari yun hahahaha...
ay oo, si papa sino nga ba name nya ulit? heheheh joek lang... alam ko naman name nya pero di ko na mention dito at baka ayaw mong ipa mention...

hahaah--naku vera sis ko, alam kong pag nagpaganda ka ay walang ka effort effort dahil maganda ka na ehhhh, at pag lalo ka pang nagpaganda ay baka ang buong canada ay mabighani na ng kagandahaan mo hahahaah-wawa naman si papa mo...ey hhhhhhhhmmmmm.
..uulitin ko sis: isa kang kagandahan....hindi basta ganda,kundi kagandahan talaga....kaya pumirmis ka na lang at i prente ang yung isipan hahahahaha----
ay hindi ka naman nagkakasala noh...hindi masama ang mag isip ng mga bagay bagay sa yung gustong pag ukulan ng pansin hahahahah--wag lang naman yung tipong porno na ang yung iniisip saken bwhahahahahaha---- joek lang--sympre brow mo ako nohhh at sis naman kita kaya no way na maging INCEST tayo sa isa't isa....
i am only making a very loud AFFIRMATION ng yung angking ganda..... bow!

Anonymous said...

kuya!

alam mo bang malulutong ang bawat tawa ko d2.. habang binabasa ko ang replies mo... kc kung hndi ko lng iisipin tlga... para kang hndi Monk how the way you are to me.. ung bang parang kadugo kita as my Kuya... ung parang galing ka sa Mami ko... na sharing my stuffs sau.. nd u too sharing ur stuffs to me nd to everybody...

ah bsta.. im happy evry single words na nilalaan mo sa mga replies mo skn... nd thanks for dat Kuya...

lam mo bang lagi akong pinagkakamalang 13-15 yrs old d2... evrytym na may ma encounter akong tao... they will ask me how old i am... nd they would not believe na im 21... sa itsura at hugis ng katawan ko... kaya plan ko talagang magka-laman kahit konti pa.. ung mag mukhang adult na hndi mukhang bata.. hihihi pro hndi ko nman hahayaan na magka bilbil ako... baka yan pa ang dahilan na mag hanap c papa ng iba... huhuhuhu

havea great day! see u on ur next post...

cheers!

forevermonk said...

@vera

hahahaah--talagang sis nga kita at kuya mo ako, eh talagang tutuo nga ang sinasabi nila dahil napaka inosente ng mukha mo at parang kinse ka nga lang at neneng nene, at tama din kung mag dadagdag ka ng timbang ay iwasan mong ito ay maipon sa yung waistline hahahaahh-kundi ay baka si papa biglang mag disappear bigla---ay naku ha, ang swerte swerte naman ng papa mo dahil sa angking ganda mong yan noh--baby face na baby face ka kasi sis ko, at mana ka sa akin na kuya mo dahil noong mga nasa 30's na ako ay napagkakamalan pa rin akong 24 or 25 yrs old bwhahahahahah samantalang nasa 34 na ako noon heheheh== noong nag 40 yrs old ako ay napapagkamalan nila akong nasa 32 yrs old lang at ngayung kasalukuyan na ako ay 51 yrs old na ay napagkakamalan nyo naman akong nasa 39 or 40 yrs old hahahahahahah--baby face nga ba ako? or dahil sa aking sinasabi mong killer smile ko ngeeeeeeeeeeks.
ingats lagi sis ko--ipinag pi pray kita sympre at pati na son mo at papa mo hahahaha (papa ng anak mo i mean) hahahahahaha.....abangan ang susunod kong kabanata este post---the tales of lawrence your kuya!

forevermonk said...

@vera

ay sis pahabol---slamat naman kung ganun na natuwa ka sa aking mga sinsabi- ay kasi naman talagang ganito na ako---kumbagah, walang pretenses--napaka prangka kong tao at truthful pa yan ha...what you see in me is what you get kahit sa pictures lang at sa mga laman ng utak ko na sinsabi ko sa mga comments and replies ko--ganito na talaga ako-walang misteryong bumabalot sa aking pagkatao except of course my being a monk--dahil mismong mga kamag anak at kaibigan ko sa manila at bikol ay hindi pa rin makapaniwala sa misteryo at hiwaga na bumalot sa buong pagkatao ko kung bakit napadpad ako sa Monasteryo bwhahahahahah....

Anonymous said...

kuya!

ginulat mo ako! as in Kuya! talaga... hndi ako makapaniwala ur 51 na... as in.. tinawag ko pa ung Tta ko just to ask her what age range ka na belong for her... nd sabi ni Tta dun sa photo mo sa entry mo na how u beat the summer.. ung pinakita mo ang iyong best shot the abs nd evrything.. sabi ni Tta nsa mids 30s to 40s kna daw... nd she was shocked nung pinabasa ko sa knya ung part nag replies mo na u said ur 51 na... gggrrraaaabbbeeeeehhhhh.... i cant believe... mana nga tlga ako sau Kuya... baby face... nd i know thats natural... dahil isinasapuso mo lhat ng ginagaw mo... ang pag diet... pag alaga ng katawan mo... nd the most is the KILLER SMILE ITSELF... yan ang nag dadala sa baby face mo... all i can sa is UNBELIEVABLE! u look so young kuya as in...

thanks for the prayers.. i do pray for you too..

see u on ur next post!

Ronnie said...

pambihira ka talaga papa dom! i thought na super cool ka when you said na nag inuman kayo ng san miguel beer grande pero lalo akong napabilib sa suot mong SKIMPY swimwear. haha!

on the serious side, im glad there are people who are taking time to oversee society's less fortunate. may God return to them a hundred fold of what they gave.

nga pala, i posted na yung pics ko. tag na din kita. ^_-

Anonymous said...

Hahahah ok na biglang may hirit pa sa dulo kuya! hahahah... Nakita na kita noh! Nabuklat ko sa archives mo hehehe

Nakakatawa usapan nyo ni Vera lagi. Sarap basahin. Hahahah

Sorry yan lang masusulat ko sa ngaun kuya. Nagluluha mata ko ang sakit... may sore eyes ang kapatid mo huhuhu

forevermonk said...

@vera,

kitam mo na sis ko eh pati ikaw shocked at tulig pati tutuli mo sa gulat!!!...hehehehe-eh ngayun di ka makapaniwala bwhahahahahaha...ikanga unbelibabol nyeknyeknyeknyekkkk...pero yan ang tutuo at pawang katotohanan....na ao ay liebo singkwenta na pero ang lakas ko ay tulad ng sa nasa 30's at mukha ko nasa 40's hahahahahah--maybe dahil nga sa choice of foods ko-sa diet at exercise and most of all-my happy disposition in life that makes me give that killer smile bwahahahahahaha--happy wednesday sis ko.....

forevermonk said...

@ironnie

hahahahaah--bakit naman, akala mo ba hindi ako pala-inum? hahahah..noong hindi pa ako mone ay hilig kong mag inum ng grande--with frends..pero hindi ako nalalasing sa isang baso ....but times changed--nagbabago timpla ng susceptibility ko sa alak hahahaha...ngeksssss, ok lang yung pagskimpy trunks ko--nasa tubig naman eh, parang wala lang yun sa akin--kasi it called for me to wear that on the occasion...mas magugulat ka at mawiwindang ang kamalayan mo kung makita mo akong nagsuot ng trunks sa gitna ng Misa bwhahahahaahahah--that is insane na noh hekhehehekhekhek....
bwhahahahahaahahha-while i was writing this, i went to my feedreader and opened it- and clicked your site--yung pixelog but did't find your pics-- yug pala nasa isetnocorner siya ...ey ronnie ganda lalakeeeeeee....gwaping ka pala tol..now, buo na ang isip ko sa mga mukha nyo --dahil nakit ako na kayo lahat- mula kay bluepanjeet(latest pic nya), kay sasha,kay rebecca, kay brvince,kay jeff,kay elmo -(he has lots in his site), at kay vera (kahapon lang naipost nya slideshow pa) at itong iyo nga ngayung umaga ko lang nakita...

now- ang next action ko is to collect them and put them in my personal album for my reference- hahahahaha..now that i have not only conceptualize your faces in my mind but actaully has practically seen all your faces-- i have vowed to myself that by all means paguwi ko diyan sa pilipinas ay dapat may isang special gathering tayo (except kay vera na nasa Canada at kay becca na nasa California) to celebrate the event of our friendship that has been connected thru the blogworld...o di bah ang ganda ang aing objective! hahahahaha....
naku you look georgeous utol ko!... talo mo ako sa kagandahang lalake..sabagay di hamak na mas bata ka sa akin ng kung ilang daang paligo bwhahaahahahahah....
at salamat sa tag ---- iba na naman yan hhmm--ano pa kayang ipapakita ko eh lahat halos ng parte ng mukha ko at katwan ko ay nakita na ninyo sa site ko eh bwhahahahahahaah.....sige, mag iisip ako ng concept na maganda yung tipong: "featuring the face and the body behind and underneath the 'abito'...... may sense ba? nyahahahahaha.

forevermonk said...

@sasha

eh sis ko, pagaling ka sis....mahirap ang may sakit--our wealth is our health ikanga kaya wag mong i dismiss ang thoughts mo na it will pass away without taking serious attention sa medications mo....hala ka, mahirap yan kasi kelangan mo pa naman ng mata mo para sa pagpost mo ng mga paid posts mo eh....naku, baka mabitin ka nyan sa deadlines...sige- ipag pray kita for recovery to good health once again sis ko....

Anonymous said...

kuya!

good morning!

yeah! talagang nakakagulat ka... as i was reading ur replies kay Ironnie... i was wondering... if ever na magkakaroon kau ng gathering.. sana andun kmi ni Te'Becca...

aabangan ko ung susunod mong kabanata.... waaaaa...

see yah!

forevermonk said...

@vera,
sis ko, oo --talagang mag grand eyeball kami sa januray 2008 (tentative month)...then i will post our pics while at dinner...

check my update--gotta go na kasi pinaglilinis ako ng mga refrigerators namin-i defrost ko daw ngeeeeeeeeee....

ingats ka lagi dyan sis ko.

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