Love is tender and tough

For many of us, this is not an easy command to follow. Tenderness seems to be a reflex reaction to some people, but for others it is alien and difficult. You see this in public places like airports and shopping centers. An elderly woman is struggling with luggage or packages, and a steady stream of able-bodied people who pass her by. Some even scowl and say, Get a move on grandma. And then a tenderhearted person comes along and take time to help her.

There are many reasons why some people are tender while others are tough. Part of it can be explained as God's workmanship. He makes us all different. Part of it is due to family heritage, the individuals temperament and the kind of experiences he or she has had. Both tenderness and toughness are important character qualities, both are necessary sides of love.