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Wednesday, December 5, 2007

what does Christmas means to me?..it is a story of decisions!


A meme that was passed to me by -TeacherJulie and i am so grateful to her for the tag....

The instructions of this meme are the following:
Here’s the drill:
  1. Make a paragraph next to the last paragraph in the tag that is passed to you “What is Christmas to you” and put your name at the end of it linking back to your site, or the page that answered this tag.
  2. You can use a title that will suit your Christmas idea.
  3. Then tag as many as you can
Christmas is an annual holiday that makes my little wishes come true. A pair of new shoes, new dress and gifts from my Godparents. That’s how I defined Christmas years and years ago until… I came to Bahrain. That’s when I realized what it really means. A special day to commemorate the birth of Jesus. Here in Bahrain, Christmas is nothing. It’s just an ordinary working day for almost everyone, unless your boss is considerate, he’ll give you at least a half day to celebrate, if there are celebrations happening. But in my case, there’s nothing to celebrate literally. Everyone is at work, that includes my husband and myself. We attend the midnight (Christmas Eve) mass and that’s it, go to sleep and get back to work the next day, on Christmas day. My first Christmas away from home happened in 1999. I came here in October and had the most loneliest Christmas ever in my life - without my family. That made me realized their importance. On how meaningless celebrations would be without them. To cut the story short, for me Christmas is all about Jesus and family. If you have friends to celebrate this special day with you, that’s a bonus! -When Silence Speaks
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A little while ago, I talked to my daughter about this year’s Christmas being different from the other Christmases we had. She asked me why. I explained to her that my husband and I are both undergoing financial difficulties since hubby has just been doing consultancy work since March and that means no extra money for the holiday expenses, not that we give expensive, extravagant gifts, we don’t. She said something like: “It’s okay, we don’t need expensive gifts, what is important is that we are together.” Thank you, Trixie, for making this easier. (Please click on her name to see what she has written in her blog about her thoughts on this.) We have always emphasized about the real meaning of this holy day. That this is about Jesus who came to save us from sins and give us eternal life. We always make it a point to go to church during the morning of Christmas day to give thanks to the Lord. Christmas is not just a holy day, not just a time of giving gifts but a time to thank the Lord for the blessings of life. -TeacherJulie
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Christmas is about the decision that God made to save mankind! The piercing truth is that Christmas is about so many decisions.
First: It is the decision of God to send us Jesus Christ.
Second: It is the decision of Mary to accept the will of God and cooperate in the plan of salvation.
Third: Joseph decided to take Mary as his wife despite her condition. Joseph did not understand completely and yet because the angel told him so, he decided to say 'yes', too.
Sometimes I feel that the yes of Mary overstated and the weight of Joseph's yes was underestimated.
If Joseph did not agree to the angel's leading, the 'yes' of Mary would have resulted in a condemnable pregnancy that could have led to a dead mother and baby.
Mary should have been stoned to death if Joseph decided to say no. Joseph's decision was important.
Fourth: It was also the decision of the wise Men to go another way and not collaborate with Herod who wanted to kill the Child Jesus.
Fifth: It was the decision, too, of the shepherds to go in haste and tell the others what they have seen.
So, for me Christmas is a story of decisions! - Dom

now, I am tagging the following at random:
JennyR Liza_moms… Liza_mysocalled… Lynn Mousey Natalie SabineM SandyCarlson
Sasha Thess Tricotine WS Xixi Vera Arlene Carver Dan Azrael iRonnie Rebeccca
bluepanjeet chuva Wendy karen Jeprocks kuya Rino Melai GBex

14 comments:

Liz said...

Hi! Salamat sa tag ;) Actually may tag na rin ako nito from Rosemarie, pero di ko pa rin nagawa. Isabay ko na lang huh. You'll hear from me ;) TC

Liz said...

Thanks for adding me. I've added you too, pati na rin sa isa ko pang blog, htpp://mlizcochico.com.

Carver said...

Thanks for visiting me and adding me to the tag. I am slow about tags but I will try to participate at some point. I do appreciate you adding me and if I don't do it, it's only because I'm behind with the tags at the moment. Best wishes, Carver

jennyr said...

what a great message to anyone and I like this tag a lot! I'll be working on this one soon! Thanks for tagging me, I feel honored. I like how you shared your life and experiences! I like how you interpret Christmas in your own words...once again thanks for this!

forevermonk said...

@Liza
ey i added your simple life, too--yan yung nakita ko sa window ko for the first tym na hindi lumalabas sa screen ko at akala ko ay nasa sau ang problema yun pala ay heavy lang ang cookies ko hahahaha---

bless you Liza-- waahhhhh..lapit na pasko dyan sa atin--- ni simoy ng hangin ay hindi ko man lang masasamyo....

forevermonk said...

@carver
its perfectly alright my friend!... whenever you can...happy Friday to you and see you at our WS entries....

forevermonk said...

@jennyR
no problem my friend basta ikaw hehehehe...

lapit na ang pasko nohh.... nangangamoy na ang simoy ng biko at hamon hehehehe...

bless you my friend!

Lynn said...

Thank you for the tag. :) I do appreciate tags. Would just like to inform you I do not observe Christmas as I am not a Catholic. But I'd like to put my thoughts on Christmas and I'll be doing this.

Have a good day.

SandyCarlson said...

Dom,
It's done! Mine is here:

http://slcthoughts.blogspot.com. I hope you'll come by and have a look! Thanks for including me in this tag.

God bless.

forevermonk said...

@lynn

i am so glad you are doing it- bless you lynn!

forevermonk said...

@sandycarlson

yoru thoughts on Christmas indeed edified me!..thank you my friend for doin it....
bless you sandy!

TeacherJulie said...

Dom, I love the way you wrote the sequence of the events before the birth of Jesus. This is something people tend to forget, being busy with so many Christmas festivities.

Thanks for taking the time to do this. I appreciate the gesture.

Have a great weekend and see you at the WS :)

Julie
http://teacherjulie.com

forevermonk said...

@julie

I am glad i am able to make my reflections as instrument to remind us all about the real story behind the first Christmas Story!..bless you Julie and see at WS!... ingats ka lagi!

jennyr said...

I am finally done! Been bz this weekend kaya mdyo natagalan pagpost ko. thanks once again, I enjoyed the tag!!! I posted it at hobbiesandsuch.com

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